The unconscious partnership -- Love, lost and found -- Childhood wounds -- Your imago -- Romantic love -- The power struggle -- The conscious partnership -- Becoming conscious -- Commitment -- Discovering your partner -- Creating a zone of affirmations -- Defining your curriculum -- Creating a sacred space -- Portrait of two relationships -- The exercises -- Ten steps toward a conscious partnership -- Exercise 1. your relationship vision -- Exercise 2. childhood wounds -- Exercise 3. imago workup -- Exercise 4. childhood frustrations -- Exercise 5. parent-child dialogue -- Exercise 6. partner profile -- Exercise 7. unfinished business -- Exercise 8. the imago dialogue -- Exercise 9. the commitment decision -- Exercise 10. caring behaviors -- Exercise 11. the surprise list -- Exercise 12. the fun list -- Exercise 13. positive flooding -- Exercise 14. the behavior change request dialogue -- Exercise 15. the holding exercise -- Exercise 16. owning and eliminating your negativity -- Exercise 17. zero negativity and reconnecting process -- Exercise 18. visualization of love -- Seeking professional help -- Notes -- Bibliography -- About imago relationship therapy -- Imago contacts -- Additional relationship resources -- Index -- About the authors.